Downsizing and Weddings.....These two things are related for me. And = reuse and recycle.

My children are 26 and 27.  They are in the middle of the bunch on my husbands side and they are pretty much all the same age on my side.

We are in the "family wedding" mode on my husbands side.  There were two last November and one this month and a couple of family friends had children marry this year too.  I have often struggled with gifts.  We don't know what to do sometimes.  Registrations often seem impersonal but on the other had young folks might not have similar taste to us.

I am a bowl and pitcher junkie.  I love pottery and dishes of any kind.  I can not resist the utilitarian beauty of pottery.  This year while we were discussing downsizing my husband reminded me that I purchased a couple of items on our motorcycle trip.  He also pointed out the purchasing more was not in line with down sizing.  So generous of him.  (NOT)  So o.k., I know I may have a materialism issue in a couple of areas. (Fabric, pottery, glassware, dishware....)  I am a Libra, balanced, I see both sides of everything.  Sometimes it makes me down right crazy.

So I took a look at and in my cupboards and really had a hard time just giving things to charities.  Then I got a brain storm.  I picked out a special bowl for each niece or nephew getting married, purchased handmade tongs or special salad utensils, packaged them together and gave them for wedding gifts.  At first I didn't tell them because I was nervous that they thought I was being cheap.    Now I think I am pretty smart.  I tell them where the bowl came from and what it means to us.  I tell them about the adventure we had when we purchased the bowl and I wish them love and adventures too.

So you see, I am not cheap; I am sharing my love for travel, happiness and adventure with our next generation.  And well, my husband thinks I still have too many bowls.

With love from your retired FACS teacher,

Jane